ADJUSTMENT

We loved each other , then get married , or our parents select our partner. It is the real picture of our society

Question is very few of them are living happy life, most are doing adjustment with each other, and others are
going to the extime, which is divorce. Why so?

Every one may think this question on his or her own. Answere is no one know how to adjust? ADJUSTMENT is a essential thing for a couple.

1. Weavelength of brain and mind is most important for a couple, but we always try to avoid it, because very
     few thing the same way.
2. After getting married  no one are individual, family needs atleast two persons adjustment, husband and
    wife. But every one is suffering in igo problem, If one say right , other would have say wrong, They have
    their own logic , It is secondary who is the correct, only here one thing need ADJUSTMENT.
3. Before get married both were in a illution of bodily attachment, they only see the positive side of each
   other. after got married one can see other very closely, good, bad and uglyness too, Here is the difficulty
   start, Both were in dream , now day to day , dream would have break.
4. Life like too monotomous, Binding of relationship feel heavy day by day.
5. No one try to understand others outlooks and values, but it is the pillar of relation .Sit down together,  
    discus problems of both , then come to the conclusion.This conclusion would have both sided. Ii is called
    adjustment. With out it no relation live a long life.
6. Very important is for family life, most of couple have their own children, They are the symbol of love of
    both. they are innocent , before thinking of our own relationship, it is important to give children a happy
    and joyfull life.

JUST THINK ONCE , LOVE TAKES YOU TOGETHER, LOVE GIVES YOU FAMILY, AND LOVE MADE YOU PARENTS.FORGET ALL THE BITTERNESS , SMILE AND FEEL PROUD FOR YOUR CHILDREN, FAMILY NEED FATHER AND MOTHER BOTH , EQUALY, AND LIFE IS SHORT